Get rid of gambling addiction.
Recently decided to abandon games because my parents noticed that I would often sit up at them and rarely go out and just play for days. Thought about them and decided to completely abandon them. Cleaned out the comp, took it to the attic with a Curling iron, throw out all the disks and tried to push more out on the street, read or just sit in the Internet, but a strong desire to play from time to time still appears.Who was in my situation, give good advice.A. Soldier of Light
You have the sense of respectful address to a stranger. You have it a surprise?
A. Soldier of Light wrote:
Truth is one
Many people, so many truths. And by the way, as it were, in the modern world this truth effectively to convey? For now, the dispute often wins more brazen and assertive, but not carrier of the truth. Victory, it should be noted, for most others, because the overwhelming majority of first thing to pay attention to the intonation, facial expressions, gestures... whatever, but not on the authenticity of the words of the speaker. The word does the person who knows the truth, to prove it? After all, not making it possible to lose face to others. On the other hand you can be out the views of the latter. Perhaps even necessary, but respecting the measure. But there are instances when to avoid the dispute will not work, for example at work, otherwise you will swallow and will not notice. FEP. What do you think about this?
To get involved in some affair which is actual in use and it is interesting in training) At coincidence, the flat stupidity of the modern games will start to poison even with dependencies. Well, the value of time/the eye will increase with active learning. One day just realize that irretrievably grew out of this decadesin... But from the wandering of the Internet to give will be much harder. There is already the right quality of self-organization.
XS, I do not what to play. Projects review. Waiting for RDR.
Online games have long ceased to play. Because it is a waste of time. Can only buy BF WWII game.
For me now the most interesting game is Java) To work and the future useful + to play this game more interesting than it is now slag-like projects.
Tin! Guys, if you finally scored video games, lost interest in them, then damn, what do you do to Playground. How so ? Why do you still hang out here? Honestly, I have the same problem. Parents, unfortunately, against what I'm into. (and they are very determined) And that's what I decided. They just don't listen and all. I'm not going to give up. I want and will do what I like (even if I have to go for the sake of deception, Yes, but what else, a white lie), it's my LIFE, my HOBBY, and nobody has ANY MORAL RIGHT to deprive me of it due to the fact that someone thought it was correct. I feel that you're smart, and you need to do IS MY CHOICE. One all life collect stamps or build with LEGO, others can not imagine my life without watching the series. But why when it comes to video games, it had a lot of negativity from others? I just can't understand it. Be men! If I hurt someone, then forgive me, burnt.
BubbleOperation
that burnt - visible))
let a couple of questions: I live separately from parents, on hardware, games, Internet I earn money? utilities, food, clothes and other favors, too?
if so, I sincerely do not understand your parents.
if not, then I as a parent would be freaked offspring which you have to learn to put on their feet, and he than the monitor anywhere you want. no offense.
very Igromania, a film nut as well with experience, and much more maniac, but never against the parents and say a word did not dare. especially on games some :) earlier had fled from the paternal home if anything, the independence I was looking for - but it was too hard was this independence, as much as not want to remember.
Check for yourself. The more someone restricts your hobby (if that is indeed the hobby that you chose for YOURSELF and get from him a true pleasure), the more will increase the desire again to do it. Like it or not.
BubbleOperation
I used to play too, as a demon. Held each new game. Already weakened it.
Right now a lot of programming, so to speak want to organize their lives, read the news about the games, but that's only like an hour, I go into some game and play for a long time can not ( Just stupidly boring.
Pass only really good projects on PS4.
BubbleOperation wrote:
The more someone restricts your hobby
why live with such people? and again put the emphasis on closerelatives))
if all did so and no problems maybe
if, say, a girlfriend, a wife is mad, so was far away, so different :)
a hobby now dear, I have a friend not only on the rushing game, but also assembles, glues models of Soviet tanks...not sorry for the sake of his pleasure, but biting rates and try to find in our hole
Drink, smoke, and masturbate without stopping. Really helps to get rid of gambling addiction..
DMG EX777
Maybe 30ке closer to get rid of it. Now if I play only on weekends and for a couple of hours))
S
No, at the moment I live with parents, work or study at the Institute.
S wrote:
if not, then I as a parent would be freaked offspring which you have to learn to put on their feet, and he than the monitor anywhere you want. no offense.
I understand, but I think that the parents should not interfere in the lives of their children in this regard (especially after 18 years), constantly drive to the head what is to do (free time), in their “correct and always true” opinion, and what not. As a result of such education becomes in fact a copy of their parents (in my opinion) without our own views on life, goals, preferences, etc. (this is scary) it seems to Me that such interference is due to the fact that the parents themselves have not achieved in life what they wanted to achieve. (so wish we did it for them, ie, have lived their own lives according to their plan and rules, which is very stupid and unfair)
Even when I find a job (no matter what), I'm sure on one hundred percent that the attitude of parents to my hobby absolutely no change. As chmyrev for it, and will chmyrev. (nothing to do) And I'll be forced to continue to hide this information, lie I'm doing in your spare time. (already tried to talk to them on this subject, but to no avail, it is better not to contact) “We always want what's best for you” - yeah, of course, that's what you think. I wonder why I so often feel worthless, suffer humiliation, do not want to deal with the fact that I'm not interested, tired of the constant unannounced inspections? (if I play or not) have already Reached senility. If I'm sitting in the headphones, it means that I'm playing, Oh yeah. (if not, then I have to prove it LOL, give to look at the history of sites) I can't read news on the Internet gaming industry and to watch overview videos, in short everything related to video games. (but I don't care about such rules and I do it quietly) Now I can play, but VERY rarely. (when parents not at home) If I burn, then I can lose the most valuable thing I have - PC. My games are hidden with the help of a special program, it is impossible to see and remove in control panel. That is to say, we are doing our best.
Yes, all of this took place, nothing wrong with that. This period just needs to survive that way, then remember you well. What is study? It's a lot of free time. Now most of the students burn all their free time at the computer. Before the computer it was partying, reading, collecting, models and the like. Just instead only priority up games and network. And who study like it does? Admit it, this is the same unit. Especially when not teach the right things even in the specialized education in colleges or institutes.
And even if you oak oak at school, nothing is taught and nothing is learned, still you then your place in life will find you to do what you really like.
And when they work, especially if you like the work and doing good for mental or physical labor, you're mentally and physically tired, and when tired of playing no strength.
Pet Sematary wrote:
You have the sense of respectful address to a stranger. You have it a surprise?
Not a surprise, and neponyatku, to whom an appeal, otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Used that in the Internet all of you. Guess why ;]
Pet Sematary wrote:
Many people, so many truths
Heard the phrase about the truth is everyone has their own, but that the term true to substitute this, not heard. You're the first ) And of course, you're wrong. A lot of opinions, not truths, opinions.
Pet Sematary wrote:
truth effectively to convey?
That's the problem, Yes. Let's say you know for sure something you saw, felt and so on, and then you do not believe. Well, that's nothing, but what if someone brazenly declares that you lie? Your actions / words in response?
Pet Sematary wrote:
For now, the dispute often wins more brazen and assertive
Controversial statement ) first, in any dispute, and where? Who is arguing with whom and on what platform? Second, win the argument what is it? No, seriously, how is it? ) When you know the truth, you will never agree with, ahem, arguments energetic Troll, isn't it? Then where is the victory of the pushy woodpecker? )
Pet Sematary wrote:
because the overwhelming majority of first thing to pay attention to the intonation, facial expressions, gestures... whatever, but not on the authenticity of the words of the speaker.
May depend on the level of intelligence of the masses 8)
Pet Sematary wrote:
you can lose face to others.
If you *know* what is right, do not lose face in front of a herd of sheep, and the sheep opinion you should not worry.
Pet Sematary wrote:
The word does the person who knows the truth, to prove it?
Good question, the General answer is no, here on the situation. Talk about throwing pearls before swine, a good phrase &) All the circumstances...
BubbleOperation wrote:
Tin! Guys, if you finally scored video games, lost interest in them, then damn, what do you do to Playground. How so ?
The forum called Themes. This already answered your question -)
BubbleOperation wrote:
I understand, but I think that the parents should not interfere in the lives of their children in this regard (especially after 18 years), constantly drive to the head what is to do (free time), in their “correct and always true” opinion, and what not.
I agree with the statement required normal dialogue, not a monologue. The fact that an adult, for example, still doesn't work, that is not live at the expense of their earnings, doesn't mean he is a slave and must obey everything the parents say. Parents do not own his life, and just normal communication is always better than dictatorship.
BubbleOperation
understood, something absolutely total control over you, it will not change anything, and at the age of 30 and 40 will be the same. Douchevina while silent on the conflict, try not to withdraw, and everything will get better with time. work, independence and to live separately of course. What else will advise. Must be the child's other Hobbies besides studying, so your mind can move from the eternal books and notebooks.
me strong control was not, for another reason, sooner ran away from parents - a large family. I have another thing now, albeit amicably, in principle, have lived, but I am afraid of big families don't want :(
but seriously, everyone should know the measure, and play and watch a movie and beer with friends for a drink tonight. from one extreme to another not to fall
I have not seen this, dependency is not, and to abandon games altogether is not intended.