Choice of headphones is a chore

Help to find normal headphones up to 100$ for music and games, but still with a bias for music. Since I rarely wear headphones on the head, basically they sit on the neck, and from this stems another factor is the volume. I would like to headphones was quiet and did not have to wear them while watching the film, that though something to hear

Previously considered options such as the SteelSeries Siberia, Arctis 5, HyperX Cloud headphones from Core and Syrin-the Doomsday Dragon and 2, but almost all of them had serious flaws and now I'm just down, don't know what to choose, search and buy