Xbox One controller vs. Dualshok 3

People need advice. The question arose about buying a new Joey. And now I am faced with a choice: dualshock 3 or pad for xbox one. On the one hand, a tenacious, own battery and the form of dualshock familiar from early childhood, on the other hand, ergonomics, design, price and plag & play brainchild of Microsoft. None of these gamepads were held in my hands. Therefore, it is difficult to make a choice. Rummaged through Google. I read a dozen articles with the opinions of various people, reviewed several video reviews of one and the other joey, and somehow the certainty did not increase. I would be glad to hear your opinion, especially the opinion of people who have dealt with both gamepads. Thank you in advance!