The problem in communicating with people
Today I created this topic, but the moderators why it was removed, I have not kept it, and rewrote it a little differently, but the meaning is the same. What is written here is true, just want to ask for advice and learn what you are doing in such cases. Please please do not delete this topic.I can't communicate with the unfamiliar people, long accustomed to people. With good friends can talk even about than almost, about the events occurred over the past day about common interests and much more. But with the unknown and unfamiliar is bad go to the contact, I don't know what to say without knowing their interests, mutual friends and whatnot. Still impossible to keep up with the conversation when they say something on the subject of which I have an idea, but if they are silent, do not know what to do or ask some sort of question, he is the answer and the conversation ends again. Turns out even worse when I'm in unfamiliar company, they talk about her, and I can't even say anything, just silent and all. Do you have such a situation I described? Both of them leave?
I read somewhere that if in unfamiliar company to remove his pants and hersom twist, enlivened communication, there is a topic for discussion. but I haven't really checked, I closed a notorious loser, I have no problems with communication.
JekaXXXX
06.11.11 22:42 curtjmac
There will be a topic for discussion that jerk
And why discuss it ? Deviant behavior in adolescents is a consequence of natural processes of maturation, and natural processes it is impossible to fight, and just discuss boring
Lуnх
Impossible to fight? I wouldn't say that.
PS: I, for one, to seem cool, not starting to smoke, as many of my peers, did what they did. And all was calm.
I have the opposite problem, I don't want to speak with familiar people and with strangers is no problem, it was not.
Vector5007, and to take but to go on about her own desire to be silent didn't occur to you?
Also have had similar problems. Previously we did so - silent, unless you pay attention (if a company) or stood around, smoked, and pretended that arrive in their thoughts. Although usually even pretend not accounted for, because to stand and listen to those topics, which are not cut quite boring. Easier to score on this issue) self-will.