AutoPlay cards at the bitch (Battlefield 2)

Guys, please help. Play modification Skynet. There are two problems that have just had enough. If when you start the game I have included the Internet, it automatically started the fight, I joined the online machine. Constantly go immediately necessary. How to undo it?
And the second problem, which probably have many. I have Win7 x64. And sometimes the game starts without an Internet connected, but other times, especially after updating Windows or something system, it just hangs in the Manager using 9 MB of RAM and does not run until I turn on the Internet. How to deal with it??