Can't get married (Mount & Blade)

Damn, people, I decided to Warbande to get married, found a girl, the poems she read, in General lyubofff, and the whole ne, made an offer, all as expected, her father agreed, took the dowry and said that I will throw in a feast and as soon as all are gathered together let me know.I had a job, supposedly to get married, for the execution of 367 days, how to play I never figured it out, made a second save game, organized the army in the cities and began to wait, we waited and waited until the job was 1 day, I went into the city, there was already a holiday and stood my bride, I came up to talk and she pushes me supposedly where her father is, he must make a feast, etc. and her father sits in his castle and shit wants his daughter to marry, says they say start, when all are gathered together, the day expires, the job failed, what to do, help pliz)))