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Gomon the Elder 11.11.21 02:11 pm

Friends with a dark past

In this thread, we will talk about the benefits / harms of friends and acquaintances with a dark past, as well as the advisability of establishing such acquaintances. Let's talk about people connected in one way or another with the criminal world: thieves in law, criminals, criminals, leaning back and other people with sins behind their backs.

It's not a secret for anyone that now there are practically no people with a wide circle of acquaintances, among whom (among friends) there would be no people who were not sitting or clean before the law. Almost everyone has at least one friend or just an acquaintance who has committed crimes in the past or was imprisoned in high security colonies. Friend-ex-prisoner - now you will see so few people. Vice versa.

It is very annoying to hear when some moralist speaks badly of people who were sitting just because they were sitting. Or about thieves in law. The only reason for hatred towards such a person is that he has committed a crime, he achieves goals by illegal means, and so on. Everything. At the same time, he does not care at all what kind of person he is, as a person and what is on his mind. Judging a person by a couple of actions is a delusion if you are not personally familiar with him. Many people make mistakes and change, this is not at all a reason to offend a person just because of any one mistake. You can end up badly if you allow yourself to say this in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I believe that any kind of acquaintance is needed. Acquaintances among criminals and those who were in prison in some way can be useful to an ordinary person, since they imply very useful connections that can be used (provided that they are friendly or friendly). So I do not advise putting an end to a person right away just because of his dark past (or even the present). All sin.

For example, in our company we have a moored Zinovy, an adult man over thirty years ago, he leaned back 4.5 years ago, went to the zone, for murder, an attack on garbage, all the cases. The man is very serious and dangerous, in the zone the roof has completely moved down, if you look at him crookedly, he can kill in no time, I guarantee. Nevertheless, you ask, why the hell did such friends or acquaintances surrender? Stupid question. Different acquaintances are needed, this is their benefit. The power of dating is in diversity and reliable dating should be in different areas, even in crime. If you have any problems in this area, who will help you out? Do you know a doctor? Or a physicist you know? I doubt.

Returning to the moose. Despite all of the above, all my sidekicks respect him and always support him. A really cool guy, very reliable in himself, will always help out, always advise and help. If there is some kind of fight or problem, he will definitely intervene and help. It is always more fun and interesting with him in the company, he tells life stories, the man went through the school of life, albeit severe, knows a lot, has seen a lot. By the way, he also has a family, quite normal, except that his wife hangs on him because of alcohol, that he drinks every day, but he loves her, he never said a crooked word to her, did not hit her. But strangers should be careful with him.

Why am I? I mean that dating should be whatever you want, if it is useful. You should not disown a person just because he is a former criminal. Indeed, in life, he can turn out to be a very reliable and cool friend, whom you can rely on in case of trouble. Do not think narrow-mindedly, comrade moralists. No one is immune from crime and prison. I do not encourage crime and going to the zone, as a school of life, but I do not condemn it either, since everything happens in life.

I have a few questions for you, dear forum users.
1. Are there such people in your circle of acquaintances?
2. If so, how many and how close are your relationships (purely friends, or close friends, or maybe relatives)? What do you do with them?
3. If not, why not? Do you deliberately avoid such people, or do you have one intelligentsia in your circle?
4. What are the pros and cons of meeting similar people and maintaining friendly relations with them?
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Hrip 11.11.21

I will say more, and many of these articles do not really know it. Smashed the fucking lawyer on the beach that he was getting drunk. I thought, "boy" disassembly, but sit now .... And such cases are not isolated.

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Infiltratоr 11.11.21

And how many drugs are thrown into the pockets of the boys.

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Sanya_Bars 11.11.21

Hrip
That's for sure. Garbage thieves have become, and everyone who is with them. Money is everything right now.
There was a case in our city. In general, one shopkeeper of the store beat his wife all of her ribs, broke her face bones, legs, and then killed her hands. So he was not even fined in court! Can you imagine ?! He unfastened the dough for them and everyone forgot everything, except for her wife's brother. They caught him, beat him, and in the forest outside the city threw them a conditional given.

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Okruta 11.11.21

He beat his wife and broke all of her ribs, facial bones, legs, arms and then killed.
His wife has the right.
They caught him, beat him, and in the forest outside the city threw them a conditional given.
They were still lucky, for inflicting grievous bodily ones you can get a real one.

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Ankh 8 11.11.21

They were different acquaintances. I didn’t have any relatives among the inmates, but I don’t see any reason to shy away from them. Of course, a lot depends on the article, but also on the person himself. In certain situations, an acquaintance among criminals and / or cops can come in handy.

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Xaker 23 11.11.21

I have friends fuckers and nerds who follow me around school, are these guys better? It's better to have friends of jocks
Above, the author correctly said, from a person who hangs what his friends will be, if you are a weakling in character like me, there will be friends the same
Yes, a bakery too not the best home and friends who were there or are at risk of getting there, you need to stay in the middle, and do not say that this is impossible! A person cannot be just a jock or a goof / nerd there is always a middle

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AlexanderJammol 11.11.21

1. There were, but for a very long time. Thieves and drug addicts.
2. I was smart enough to end my friendship with them, because later one of them ended up in a juvenile colony.
3.Nafig need to create problems for yourself?
4. There are no pluses.

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Xaker 23 11.11.21

AlexanderJammol
In principle, if you have a head on your shoulders, you can have different friends and not be like them, just if they kill someone and you stand next to them, they will also go to jail and the term will be something like this

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The_SMachine 11.11.21

Gaumont the Elder, Gaumont the Younger and I wonder if there is a Gaumont in the middle?

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The_SMachine 11.11.21

Moreover, many were sitting just like that.
Yes, all of them are innocent, one stood up for the girl, and the other was set up, yeah

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requiemmm 11.11.21

There are such characters, two, at the very edge of the circle of acquaintances. I drank a couple of times in the same company, I don't maintain a relationship, because I hate drug dealers in any form. There are no acquaintances with more serious articles, and I do not plan to acquire such. Although in this country it is possible to be in the zone at any time, for the cause and just for disclosure and new stars.
Again, such a garbage, if you help a "friend", it is not a fact that the "friend" will respond in kind. Here you have to be more careful, otherwise you will not have time to grunt, as you are already on TV, as a member of an organized crime group led by a dangerous repeat offender. There will already be different dates, completely different.

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Sanya_Bars 11.11.21

Okruta
What right does he have to kill a person? Even your wife? Do not talk nonsense

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Okruta 11.11.21

What right does he have to kill a person? Even your wife?
The common law, because the wife essentially belongs to the husband, for a kind she died the moment she got married. The white color of the wedding dress comes from the white color of the burial shroud - this is a historical fact.
By the way, in Napoleonic France, the husband had the right to kill his wife out of jealousy, without any further criminal prosecution. Very good, as it seems to me the law.

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Estel 11.11.21

for the wife essentially belongs to the husband, for a kind she died at that moment.
Burn more.

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Stardrageddon 11.11.21

I wonder if Okruta has a girlfriend. What is she like, what she eats, what she drinks, what is her head - light, dark, empty or not very, what habits, does she love physics, philosophy and mathematics, does she listen to music, which Okruta, due to her low nature, does not listen to, and whether she is beautiful, what is her bust, legs, skin color, her smoothness, strength, resistance, what is her graceful silhouette when viewed from above, what is she like in service, is she hardy, is she dexterous, can she cook deliciously, accurately repair, sing, embroider, dance, play, bend nails.
But, in fact, probably all this is not very important, but I actually said it so simply.

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Sanya_Bars 11.11.21

Okruta
Yes, I'm sorry. I missed the law when drunkenness is allowed to kill people for nothing.

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Okruta 11.11.21

I missed the law when drunkenness is allowed to kill people for nothing.
And here on drunk? I am speaking generally.

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Sanya_Bars 11.11.21

nofollow
Yes, even in the general case, there is not much difference. You must understand, he was not even imprisoned. I am shocked by our corrupt power! I waved the bill and they will stand up for you with cancer!

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Sima4 11.11.21

Stardrageddon O_o
, this is also Stardrag :) Hi :)

1. Do you have such people in your circle of acquaintances?
Yes
2. If there are, how many and how close are your relationships (purely friends, or close friends, or maybe relatives)? What do you do with them?
Friend. No business

3. If not, why not? Do you deliberately avoid such people, or do you have one intelligentsia in your circle?
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4. What are the pros and cons of meeting such people and maintaining friendly relations with them?
friend, he is a friend.

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Metal Boss SxE 11.11.21

He who did not die in the war is not a man.