The wife is crying, baby
Don't know what to say, where to seek advice. We are a young family, got married two and a half years ago. Recent months, the wife begs to have a baby. When trying to explain that so far, every time she is in tears. I'm not against children, but before that we need to stand up. Also, in addition to the material side of the question, we need to be sure that you will be able to raise a child, but I honestly do not consider myself a Mature person, and wife. As they say, are still children, not fully grown mind. But it is pointless to explain all this, she still cry and cry.Get 2 at the same time the capital will get nanogi stand. At the same time the mind will get stronger when 2 troglodita will be every minute you make it.
Anyway, it you will cheat and get pregnant, women are sneaky creatures and the instinct of reproduction is strong and powerful, nothing man can't do, get ready to be a folder)).
Was subdaily son when we were both under 30. No problems with the birth and development was not there. So garbage all these terms like late, etc. and everyone is different. We are now at 34 look and feel times better than a 25. So it all depends on the body and lifestyle.
Toxa95 wrote:
Here again, the pre-default condition, erasing all around in radioactive ash, raising taxes and nischanie population for 5 years in a row, at least. Think again
China and India the fruit is not sickly,and there is poverty in spite of the say development.
Varg says about the Europeans,a good job,and having a dog and not a child.And then complain about what is there a lot of Muslims and Africans.
And lastly experiment"universe 25
Roerich
Start your child now, of course,have later your child will ask about you ,it's your grandfather and grandmother)
And educate will be able to Finance all right to be. And then in old age and who will not file a Cup of water.
Better now, because then he did not want, with money everything will be okay, and then it will be easier when the child is an adult, plus the heirs)).
Roerich
Don't know what to say, where to seek advice. We are a young family, got married two and a half years ago.
- how old are you? how many live together?
Recent months, the wife begs to have a baby. When trying to explain that so far, every time she is in tears. I'm not against children, but before that we need to stand up.
- you'll never stand on his feet. you and your wife all life will be what it seeks. but the child is not a burden. another thing is that you yourself believe that the child may become for you an obstacle. in this case, most likely not Mature enough (mentally)
Also, in addition to the material side of the question, we need to be sure that you will be able to raise a child, but I honestly do not consider myself a Mature person, and wife. As they say, are still children, not fully grown mind. But it is pointless to explain all this, she still cry and cry.
you will never be sure. unfortunately, from ourselves, not all depends. but your problem, of course, to give the child all that you have and a little more. but the amazing thing is that baby is not waiting for anything but love. and will sincerely grateful to you for a piece of bread or colored pencil.
I'm 33, I have a daughter. he had experienced once on this account. but believe me, the emotions that will give you your child is going to destroy the entire world around you and recreate it in a new way. you will become a brand new person and you will differently refer to everything that surrounds you. but you must first decide who it will be for you a burden, or a little man who is happy every minute spent with you.
Roerich
To give such advice, you need to know this man in life. Usually create family to grow a child in common, a formal marriage stuff. In your case it is not clear why you got married. When a man truly wants a child, he never asks about it on the Internet from strangers. Not looking for a hundred reasons and excuses, what you'll earn tomorrow, you can lose in one day, no one is immune. You don't want the child, and seek the advice of like-minded people to feel sorry for yourself. Usually the father works to feed the child, children and there is an incentive to drive the father into the street to work. You are now in the comfort zone, playing in the heat game, no you will not have to drive on the street to earn three times more. Whether it needs a Pope who didn't and came up with different challenges and roadblocks. I'm not Mature, not smart enough, I am not a teacher, so still and make no money. On my lunch time there, what children. Still need to play now games for 100 hours minimum. Now all the money and your time is running out for the two of you, and you don't want to share with a child. 50 thousand rubles I think should be enough for diapers, puree and porridge. At least 2-3 years, the budget is just enough, and during this time while his wife takes care of the kid, you can do something to figure out how to continue to provide for the family. The woman went for you to give birth and be a mom, you don't give it to her and make her suffer and cry every day. Health is just not increased, and until you ask passers-by how you live, if you still did not have an opinion.
Canic wrote:
On my lunch time there, what children. Still need to play now games for 100 hours minimum
have vserial)))
zubazaga wrote:
a little man who is happy every minute spent with you.
For Diabetes (on insulin since 1978) - I it is not desirable to have children !!! Couples who have lived together (on insulin) - have children but could Diabetes be inherited (by blood - my Mom passed, my grandmother and Great Grandmother was on insulin) !!!
Don't want that for their children, they say you can take foster - I do not mind, and even only !!! Me themselves need care (when the sugar drops - you need to have someone close from the Family) - and besides, the State code does not give permission, had already asked !!!
I agree with You completely !!!
Emris_ua wrote:
they say you can take foster - I do not mind, and even only !!!
why? well, you come across a child with the genes of theft and murder, what will you do with him? how to raise? if he need help.
even forget to think about adoption.
Emris_ua
Yes, diabetes is a sadness. but I have a good friend is a diabetic who has two wonderful kids. live life to the fullest. still, which a person does not take away - as is the ability to adapt. it would wish.
S
S wrote:
well, you come across a child with the genes of theft and murder
Alternative biology?
zubazaga
zubazaga wrote:
how old are you? how many live together?
Hi. I already wrote above.
Roerich wrote:
got married two and a half years ago
Roerich wrote:
I'm 26, wife 27.
Masha
Masha wrote:
You're not a believer?
everyone believes in something))
believe in science, medicine, in person to believe... I hope that finally you will find a vaccination for cancer.
there are a couple of friends (and they were deeply religious to a point) who have lost children, who tore off his crosses, when they buried the child, when the doctors shrugged and said we did everything we could.
it is horror and hell..
Yes I believe of course, but don't trust anyone.
Now everyone in the religion moved, and what evil is such steel?