The wife is crying, baby
Don't know what to say, where to seek advice. We are a young family, got married two and a half years ago. Recent months, the wife begs to have a baby. When trying to explain that so far, every time she is in tears. I'm not against children, but before that we need to stand up. Also, in addition to the material side of the question, we need to be sure that you will be able to raise a child, but I honestly do not consider myself a Mature person, and wife. As they say, are still children, not fully grown mind. But it is pointless to explain all this, she still cry and cry.Emris_ua
I'm probably roughly written, sorry :(
just in my environment is not working well with adopted children. neighbors completely took the baby from the baby house, and we all saw what the girl grows to love and care, but in 12 years began to escape, then to give birth. Now the two elderly pull (come preggers, give birth, and again in the booze) and very worried that there might be other kids abandoned it somewhere. As for me all this anti-social tin in the genes spelled out. alas.
May eventually change your mind and I will not educate my native kids, who knows.. life is like that - all in their own for you to decide))
S wrote:
life is like that - all in their own for you to decide))
Completely agree with You !!! My father told me many times all that is done in our life, all the better (somehow) !!!
About the girl that You wrote - Destiny to all cunning, may give a choice (undo and replay is impossible - it is important that we make choice in a particular case, not always successful, but for those lucky enough to make good choice in life, obstacles are not reduced) !!!
Outside the window the sun is shining - it would be possible to go on skis to ride (as I did earlier), on crutches it will be extreme !!! Counting the days when the yard Sunny - to be able to go outside !!! Birds singing, sunlight and greenery on the ground and in trees (birthday in may spring) !!!
S
we have -20 in the morning) is also wrapped around the wheel but not from the cold) and chanson so not depressing?)
Emris_ua
Emris_ua wrote:
on crutches it will be extreme !!!
Yes, I am now on two of their living legs, extreme experienced to the pharmacy decided to walk, the road is absolutely not cleaned the snow to the throat, and another under the snow and ice, all walking in a bow-legged,)),
to the pharmacy yet got completely forgotten what he wanted)
You, so lonely, that no one else is? who could help to go out and walk?
Cruel(
Pilat.
chanson is a French pop music, which is already gone))
A trophy is not the era it is art song. Like Jeka and Circle.
S wrote:
A trophy is not the era it is art song. Like Jeka and Circle.
mmm... maybe I'm not quite correctly put it
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S
OK, I will) only on the terms you are very loud there... not the type of chanson all things... and then in Japan with a feather to be done =D
Pilat.
I mean?
The circle has not been sitting - it was just his prose, his environment, well spoke man songs that he was tormented and he the prisoner? Yesenin, Mayakovsky, they also at one time was the chanson))
The wife of a Circle is cool, but of course her mouth gagged
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The round was not sitting
that's all they know. but from a bullet that did not save him. here I think the environment played a role. but you don't get the joke: don't deny the people that Circle king chanson)
heard this song a long time ago in krukowska performance. no one but him probably not sing as it should. well, Madame... of course his tale is not perceived humor)
Pilat.
Pilat. wrote:
don't deny the people that Circle king chanson)
Yes he is not the king of the chanson, and a bunch of were - Love , where as her?
Krug - author, and the author of the strong, the author of the text and music, otherwise I would forget))
Pilat.
what do you have against boys?
2015-th year, Murmansk, there are many who forwards across the border on bicycles.. here are the boys saved me. Acted rudely and clearly.
if that happens, the war for example, they only will survive, just like they will fight for the Motherland
Know one hate.
Went for a quick married and got a child.
Then the divorce and almost everything else lopped off.
S wrote:
You, so lonely, that no one else is? who could help to go out and walk?
Mom was sick with Diabetes for five years (on the pill - but the extreme is the same as me, only she's on two of his patients with leg time of the day so that I don't have time) !!!
Three younger Brother the day of the robots - in the evening it is not up to me !!!
Don't go outside when the ground is wet (after rain), or as it is now knee-deep snow and ice under it (the day is melting - and at night everything freezes (as You have described above)) !!!
There is a German after-war prosthesis (at home I can run on it and the walkers until enough strength, then go to take it off in the kitchen to raise the level of glucose in the blood so if that had enough strength to walk to the kitchen (when the sugar is below the units in the processor is not receiving fresh blood - he is disabled and I don't function properly, can chat endlessly and at the end of the fade six to nine hours)) !!! On the prosthesis and the walkers on the street not to go out (to cross the threshold, and so on - rubber nakolanniki fall through the snow and freeze to the ice by me which is not very convenient in the cold) !!!
As much as I tried, can open the door (when someone comes: our German very angry and barks loudly, always in the summer playing with him when all my on the robot) !!! So happy to look forward to every year (24.01.2013) of the arrival of spring when everything is blooming, alive, and green (you can go outside the clinic to go to the annual consultation with a Surgeon, and so forth, in the Bank card to renew (each year - suddenly cured from Diabetes or leg itself will grow (idiocy has been going on for a year) !!!
Life raspberry - like, but there are People who are worse than me !!! Describe your day with 9.09. 1978 to this day !!!
Whatever it was, to have prepared in the future life - hope for the best (that you can buy a good prosthesis which will be able to walk (without assistance - in any weather (dream ...) !!! You concentrate on the good in life, to help those who need your help (always happy to help all those who need my helping hand (though sometimes I need it - I really can't deal with)) !!!
Yes. Chosen very right resource for such questions)) but Oh Well. Dunno what's in her head going on, perhaps especially cries to put pressure, but she must understand your position not ready and the man in turn in such matters must assert their no. If she's not able to think about your future before you, that this burden must accept if you love her so. Oh and maybe afraid that you will throw her one and all, they say nobody wants(her friends,sisters,colleagues, etc. children that is, Shasta chelovecheskoe) ) And kinder you already Hosh Hosh owe you, so maybe just playing) it is difficult to give advice proceeding from the mere description of the situation. And of course the main thing that with pistons of the left flew into a DNA test if I do not remember the moment of occurrence of such.
>>When I try to explain that it is too early
The main thing is to not be late.
Better try not to sit on similar platforms and less toy play - once dramatically grow up. Why? Not least because you already have a family! And in terms of time will be more free - without games and forumicon, Mamsikov and correspondence with disappointing the right people. Okay, when you're still learning - whether at school, uni... Sometimes you have to stop. Please think about it. Good luck.