Do I need sex
Hello everybody. I decided to discuss a problem that each of us will sooner or later have to one degree or another. Someone later, someone earlier. It so happened that I am already 28 years old, there was still no intimacy. Well, at the age of 14-16, of course, I was anxious, like everyone else at this age (well, maturation, there, hormones, all the cases ...), but there was no chance to hook up, and the girls are beautiful, honestly speaking , did not have. Therefore, the institute, work, and somehow, over time, stopped thinking about it. Here I recently caught myself thinking that I had not thought about sex for several years. At first I started to worry, I even got to the dating site - well, it would be high time, but then the realization came that ..... that I did not want to at all. No, the erection is normal, don't think, I checked it - it works as before, but on the psychological level, the desire has completely disappeared. Well, roughly, as if you are well-fed, and a plate with delicious food is placed in front of you, but you absolutely do not feel like eating, and even the taste of food is not an argument. That is, of course, you can eat if you want, but you have to overpower yourself. For some time I arrived in depression, went to the doctor. He said that this is a completely normal phenomenon and it happens to everyone, only now ..... after 40k. "Midlife crisis" is called. I was blunt: "Am I already old?" He explained - they say, no. It's just that everyone's body is different, for some it comes earlier, for someone later. Well, there, I prescribed some pills, I don't remember. The pills, as usual, did not help, and in the meantime I wondered: do I need it? No, well, it's clear that everyone should have a family there, sort of, that's great (though, for most families you can't tell) ..... etc. etc. But who invented this? Well, that everyone should have sex? What if I don’t want to? It's about as sweet - most people love candy and some don't. And it's not that they can't, they just don't want to. Ask a person why he doesn't like sweets, or, say, doesn't drink, so he can't really answer. Will start to fill in about harm to health ... but you must agree, when we really want something, we usually do not care about health)))) So I decided, nafig it is necessary, although the genus still should be continued. I went to the site of the sperm bank, read it. It turns out that everything is not so difficult: you pass the test, they examine it, and if you are healthy, you can donate the hormone. You immediately kill two birds with one stone: firstly, from one such change, on average, up to 50 people are made (not bad!), that is, you can live with a clear conscience, knowing that you have continued your family with interest, and probably in a couple of hundred years, every 10th inhabitant of the country will be your descendant (like Genghis Khan), secondly, they will also pay for it) ). And you don’t need to force yourself, and why to forcibly create a family if you don’t want to? - anyway, such a family will end up unhappy ...What is your opinion?
ps
Those who are now 16 - please refrain from "opinion", you still cannot understand this situation now, you can just laugh, and when you turn 30 - remember this story.
Russian_Lawyer I
voiced my assumption, but at the end I forgot to put a full stop. Apparently gay too.
Russian_Lawyer
The word "earn" at least I know the salary of 60 thousand that used to fully provide themselves and their families.
In Moscow, 60k family - very malo.Tem more that prices increased
Buba-MokpyLLlHuk
himself go in the subway and never believe that beauties don't come across there, especially in summer.
So I think, if I remained true to myself, it would be better. / So I think, if I remained true to myself, it would be better.
Comparison of warm with soft)
[Denis Alexandrovich]
And then! I also say - minimum.
Twisted Tesla Gigafactory
I heard here who often calls others gay, he himself is latent gay))
Russian_Lawyer
I've heard here
but where is this "here"? in the gay club? clear)...
I don't know, you look like an asexual. Whatever they say, virginity at 28 is, I'm sorry, 3.14 fucked up. But this is only if the person is really worried about it and he doesn't give a shit. You don't give a shit, well, congratulations. But even if you want to lose your virginity, at this age you can only with a prostitute or with a RSP. Ordinary girls will not bite you, in their opinion it generally looks like a shizu)). Maybe you're afraid and that's the problem. But it seems to me that all this is that you do not have a normal outlook. There is no company of its own. And the company is not married, but exactly the same bachelors. In such a company, and sex and gangbang if you feel like it. And it's all so sad. I confess that I myself am not a master in this matter. But I'm not 28 years old as a bae ...
Twisted Tesla Gigafactory
Before calling someone gay .. Think about yourself or you were not taught to respect your neighbor on the 'holy' land - our tolerant))). You see how you quickly fell ill with herd instinct ..
rPeBoJL
Grevol you need not write tests (stupid) but read smart books (I advise Nietzsche - Carnegie). Develops logical thinking. Stop engaging in self-flagellation - carry your cross proudly ... Put a cross on yourself - carry it yourself.
Buba-MokpyLLlHuk
Everything is debatable! You’re not only talking about sex but also talking about family! All in one heap! I agree about the family! I've seen enough of others myself! I'm 33 and there is no family! And it seems like psychologically I want children (two nephews are cool to communicate with them), but from a pragmatic point of view, it would be necessary !! But about sex, everything is more complicated! I didn’t have it until I was 20, and then I was already thinking that maybe I don’t need him? I haven’t tried it yet and I’ll tell you so! Until you try, don't draw conclusions !! It's like saying the apples are not tasty, I haven't tasted them, but I think so !! LIFE IS ONE and you have to try everything !!! It's not even about lust, shame in front of peers or love! By the age of 20, I was simply HOLED with curiosity! And if it had not turned up one 100% would have hired a prostitute !! Sex and feelings are even more difficult question !! Without feelings, but not always high! But THIS IS LIFE !! And recently I had a crush !! I met on the internet !! It all ended badly (she was drinking and disappearing and as it turned out later, as I suspected, there was treason) I will not forgive treason in principle !! She used me in terms of money !! But to say that I am 100% sorry about everything? NO if I regret the current about the bad ending !! Have a chance to fall in love again !! Probably I would have gone into this pool again !! Let me explain why! As here some wrote they say over the years the desire disappears (I'm talking about sex) Yes, I also thought until I fell in love! FUCK NANA it disappears !! It was atas I wanted her ALL THE TIME !! You can't know what a thrill it is to have your FAVORITE girl !! Why did I tell all this? And besides that you do not need to draw conclusions about something without trying it yourself !! And life is ONE thing !! DO NOT FORGET!! And such a thing as sex, I think it is necessary to try OBLIGATION and only then draw conclusions whether you need it !!
PS And yes, to be good with your beloved at your age, you need at least some experience!
and it is far from the fact that the first time everything will be successful! this is life!
-DENIMUSS -
tell me one thing renegade. What exactly did your "smart" books give you that you advise everyone?
I understand the author. I myself got involved in a relationship a couple of times, but I still did not understand how to love sex in order to endure this brainwashing. After the second time, I gave up trying and that's it. No more interest. Run after the hole so that she makes you happy with her carcass, and you will be number N among the males who have been in it, and then you will also want you to take responsibility for it after them) Yes, fuck it, it hurts a lot of honor) What are their bodies if they give them to all sorts of assholes? Xs. I can not understand. It's disgusting. There is no incentive to change a well-established life for the sake of this.
Evgeny Astrakhantsev
The whole problem is that you need to at least occasionally break away from the computer and live a normal life. And many are accustomed to running away from their problems in the shitty virtual world .. Sit down and remember the last time you normally thumped in the company of friends. Where have you been lately and what interesting things have you seen, etc. etc. .. If you have nothing to remember you need to change yourself .. Life quickly passes day, month, year. And then you will get involved and there will be nothing to change - good places take very quickly .. You just need to move - no one will bring On a plate with a blue border .. And many sit and wait for a miracle - Fuck, forget about the eastern expression (You are looking for happiness, but it leaves . Stand still - it will come by itself) then you will hum a song (where my 17 years old on the big coach house). Everyone wants to get everything at once, but without doing anything (an excuse, well, it means the time has not come) it will never come.
rPeBoJL
Grevol I did not light the candles for the blind ... Take off the spoiler from his post let everyone see your bred- Come on ..
Spoiler "To judge a man really important, we must assume that he died, and imagine what the void would leave behind him.
-DENIMUSS -
to sculpt other people's quotes anywhere? facepalm. in your case, you can become smarter only by urinating on a bare wire) hammer on them. smart book in the hands of a moron - waste paper)
Russian_Lawyer
I've heard here who often calls others gays, he himself is latent gay)) you were asleep
)))
Before that, you muttered something about shkolota.
-DENIMUSS -
Spoiler
-DENIMUSS -
I never get nervous in my life - I don't have such a feeling ..
Your constant evasion from questions is proof of that.
I don't even breathe air ..
But in vain. The room in which you are must be systematically ventilated. As I understand it, you don't go outside at all?
-DENIMUSS -
Take the spoiler off your post, let everyone see your nonsense, come on .. bea
))) I'll pump up the press like that. Only the skating rink is dumber than you))
rPeBoJL
Grevall you know what your problem is - when a fool is pointed to the sky, he looks at his finger. You are not looking there)) Twisted Tesla Gigafactory This is not kosher. you violate the requirements of kosher.
Le Gaspilleur The
company has tightened up - December 22 is the day of the winter solstice. The herd instinct drives the herds to the stadiums. Demonstrating your mind, try at least not to look stupid.
-DENIMUSS -
Herd instinct drives herds to stadiums.
So this is the answer to my question. The stump is clear, you are not a herd ... You do not leave the shelter krch))