Do I need sex
Hello everybody. I decided to discuss a problem that each of us will sooner or later have to one degree or another. Someone later, someone earlier. It so happened that I am already 28 years old, there was still no intimacy. Well, at the age of 14-16, of course, I was anxious, like everyone else at this age (well, maturation, there, hormones, all the cases ...), but there was no chance to hook up, and the girls are beautiful, honestly speaking , did not have. Therefore, the institute, work, and somehow, over time, stopped thinking about it. Here I recently caught myself thinking that I had not thought about sex for several years. At first I started to worry, I even got to the dating site - well, it would be high time, but then the realization came that ..... that I did not want to at all. No, the erection is normal, don't think, I checked it - it works as before, but on the psychological level, the desire has completely disappeared. Well, roughly, as if you are well-fed, and a plate with delicious food is placed in front of you, but you absolutely do not feel like eating, and even the taste of food is not an argument. That is, of course, you can eat if you want, but you have to overpower yourself. For some time I arrived in depression, went to the doctor. He said that this is a completely normal phenomenon and it happens to everyone, only now ..... after 40k. "Midlife crisis" is called. I was blunt: "Am I already old?" He explained - they say, no. It's just that everyone's body is different, for some it comes earlier, for someone later. Well, there, I prescribed some pills, I don't remember. The pills, as usual, did not help, and in the meantime I wondered: do I need it? No, well, it's clear that everyone should have a family there, sort of, that's great (though, for most families you can't tell) ..... etc. etc. But who invented this? Well, that everyone should have sex? What if I don’t want to? It's about as sweet - most people love candy and some don't. And it's not that they can't, they just don't want to. Ask a person why he doesn't like sweets, or, say, doesn't drink, so he can't really answer. Will start to fill in about harm to health ... but you must agree, when we really want something, we usually do not care about health)))) So I decided, nafig it is necessary, although the genus still should be continued. I went to the site of the sperm bank, read it. It turns out that everything is not so difficult: you pass the test, they examine it, and if you are healthy, you can donate the hormone. You immediately kill two birds with one stone: firstly, from one such change, on average, up to 50 people are made (not bad!), that is, you can live with a clear conscience, knowing that you have continued your family with interest, and probably in a couple of hundred years, every 10th inhabitant of the country will be your descendant (like Genghis Khan), secondly, they will also pay for it) ). And you don’t need to force yourself, and why to forcibly create a family if you don’t want to? - anyway, such a family will end up unhappy ...What is your opinion?
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Those who are now 16 - please refrain from "opinion", you still cannot understand this situation now, you can just laugh, and when you turn 30 - remember this story.
Buba-MokpyLLlHuk
And forget it. Life is yours and live for yourself - you are not obliged to share your life with anyone, chase "helpers" and "advisers" hysterically wailing "all your friends have family-children, but you do not have !! 1" and who consider the absence of a family something unnatural.
Buba-MokpyLLlHuk
I didn't have sex until I was 31! Fell in love and ... There is such a Legend "Once upon a time there was a peasant, he lived Alone and was Happy, but here she was drawn! He loved Tu! He did everything for her .. (attention, money, etc.), for this she ( like all girls) gave him HORNS, after which, her wings grew and she flew away with her ex! The End! PS: (So to him son of a bitch, so to him [for trust]) "
Hello comrades. I live for 29 years, one of the relatives, only a younger sister. I also did not have sex and I don’t feel not happy without it. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke at all, I have a car. I cook myself (I studied to be a cook), I clean, mine, etc. and it doesn’t infuriate me. Of course I like women, but only beautiful. The first one I saw in school, she showed me what a beautiful woman is, but she already had a military man (I live in a small military town). So I'm looking for beautiful ones for whom I have a passion, but then one guy has another married town that is not big, about 30,000 people. Now I also looked after one at work, like one, let's see what happens :)))) .... Create a family I would like to, but because of a small income, I don't even plan. On TV almost every day they show families where Pama's mother is drunk and bichva, I don't want that.
There is
no ImamHattab , I just decided to find out the opinion of others, no one here expects pity from you and I didn’t have any like-minded people in my thoughts, although, as you can see, I’ve found that the psychologist is not important from you. Are there any questions?
Vanya Rygalov
hehe, my father says about the same thing to me (he is 71) - only I always considered experience in these matters as insanity, it's like the experience in how to shit to go - a physiological function, in any case it will work, the rest - details.
Adamantokha,
so I think, now I will overcome myself, I will marry - then I will regret the
light WRC I
agree, this foolishness enrages, which, by the way, was recently invented, they say, we must certainly sleep with someone - just for the sake of the fact itself. As far as I know, there were no such convictions under the Soviets, and even under the tsars.
It's okay, you just have a head on your shoulders. In modern society, it has now become fashionable to start a family after school, only the quality of these families leaves much to be desired.
Live in peace, or change something in life. Don't change it though.
In general, to all ATP for their support, I did not expect that so many people would end up with similar situations
Twisted Tesla Gigafactory
no one answered more stupidly than you)) after all, it is written: shkolota refrain from commenting
devoid.
That's right. Young people do not yet have a permanent job, they do not know how to make money, but they think that they are the best.
At the beginning of the text, I thought that the author decided to play us (trolling, to put it simply), but still read it to the end, and if this is true, then I don't even know how to relate to it. If I were in the place of the author, I probably would not care, like him, but nevertheless, the author decided to share his thoughts with us and find out our opinion.
Well, if you close your eyes to sex, isn't romantic relationships also attractive? If not against it, then maybe you just haven't found your soul mate yet? This is how people find each other at the age of 30 and 40. I think that there is no point in a relationship without sex and in sex without love, as it turns out to be insipid. I don't think that the author is gay, disabled or ugly, just at one time he did not realize himself as a male (I mean a connection with the opposite sex), perhaps in some sense there were complexes, so do not give up on yourself, everything will work out, the main thing is not put your hands down!
_BIO_ I think that there is no point in a relationship without sex and in sex without love
Golden words
The question is whether sex is needed, my answer is when you have someone, and if you don't need someone with someone, then you don't need it.
It's mine ... to men under 30, and they whine that they don't want sex ... so get your ass off the chair! But everyone laughs at those who marry early ... I got married at 21 and now I'm 23 and I am 2 months old daughter. And you sit, let out snot.
light WRC
as well as shower before / after, miramistin, etc. The only way not to get sick 100% is to MAKE YOUR LIFE!
start a family. all the way will be. hope for the best. and sex is the lot of vile (in the sense of a chaotic relationship).
there will be a spouse, you will love her and the desire to "do it" will appear with her))
Correct topic. You can't live without sex.
Whoever says what, but a man must fuck women all the time, otherwise he is not a man, but a biological unit of the neuter gender.
Has anyone heard of alpha, beta, gamma?